Teenage

"Teenagers.. When they cant get what they wanted, they'll walk all over you."

Being teenager is quite challenging. We have to forbear to stay away from the wrong side of life.

My mom said that, "In the thirteenth and fourteenth, is the age of searching and finding the way of life"I could agree more!.

Because in this 'sweet fourteen' that is what they say,There's a lot of anticipations that attracted me and almost bring me into the wrong world or maybe Im already in it, I just sometimes didnt realise it.

With all the fashions, musics, cyberworld, and the other gender... if you know what I mean. Which I think it's not that courtesy for a girl to tell it out!.

Sometimes I feel like to have a relationship like my other friends. They all have their own guyfriend. I know it's fun to have one(OMG! what am i talking about!)

But, I have to be strong! I have to fight myself!. I have to Forbear!.

When I feel to start a conversation with a guy without any reason, quickly I say to myself,

"Afeqa, sabar...... istighfar istighfar. Ini salah! Allah murka!"

And now im started to practice what Ustaz Azmen taught us during the mukhayyam. He taught us a doa,

"Ya Allah, bantulah aku dalam melawan diriku sendiri"

This was what he said when he was facing difficulties as he was teenager.

Music... hmm, I love music. But Im trying to forbear from hearing bad songs. I remembered this one lyric from the outlandish's song called 'Look into my eyes'.

The lyric was

'Do you the let media deceive your mind, Is this the truth that nobody knows?'

This lyric has a good point!. Many of us been deceived by media. And most of teenagers are ruin because of the media. What kind of media? Let me tell you,

TV shows : AF, Mentor, American Idol, Glee and many others
Radio : Hits.fm, Fly.fm, Hot.fm. Instead, we hear IKIM.fm

Fashions, I can help it by proving from hadith and al-Quran

Sesungguhnya, sebilangan ahli neraka ialah perempuan-perempuan yang berpakaian tetapi yang telanjang yang condong pada maksiat. Mereka tidak akan masuk syurga dan tidak akan mencium baunya."Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim

"Katakanlah kepada perempuan-perempuan yang beriman; hendaklah mereka dan menjaga kehormatan mereka..."An-Nur, ayat 31

"Barang siapa yang memakai pakaian yang menjolok mata, maka Allah S.W.T akan memberikan pakaian kehinaan di hari akhirat nanti."Riwayat Ahmad, Abu Daud, An-nasa'i dan Ibn Majah

Allah S.W.T berfirman dalam ayat An-Nur ayat 31 bermaksud:"........hendaklah mereka tutupkan tudung (selendang) mereka ke leher dan ke dada mereka...."

But why?! We still wear clothes, why we have to wear that one?! It's like wearing a tent! And it's hot and Im just not cool with that look!

Surah Al-Ahzab ayat 59 yang bermaksud

"Hendaklah mereka menghulurkan tudung ke seluruh tubuh mereka, supaya mereka lebih dikenali orang, kerana itu mereka tidak diganggu"

"Pakaian Taqwa itu adalah sebaik perhiasan"

p/s: My english is terrible! Please do amend it! ^____^